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A Simple Thank You
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Hello Everyone, As the founder and webmaster of Miracles In Progress I want to extent a personal "Thank You" to each of you for valuing and utilizing the CoDA portion of our site. As we grow in our recoveries from alcoholism, addiction, or being a family member of a loved one who suffers from this di...
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FEELINGS
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One of the ritual at my F2F CODA meetings was to take turns saying what we were feeling At the end of the meeting. Should we start sharing the predominant feeling for the day here as well? I think it might help us stay focused on one of the most important aspects of recovery. Knowing what we are feeling.......
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One thing you did for yourself today.
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Same idea as the last. I am hoping if this catches on we can increase the number down the road to "Two things you did for yourself today" and so on. Today I rode my bicycle. I don't know if I should put it in something I did for myself, I think I almost killed myself. I was a tad bit overly enthus...
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I really need a lecture!
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Ok, I know & you guys know that I am codependent. Therefore, all the identifying qualities apply to me...esp. those related to self-esteem. I have been an RN since 1984 but I have not worked since my husband suicided in 2006. My license comes due for renewal in Oct. and I have to decide to either take...
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Perhaps I shouldn't ...
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So I thought this could be another fun ... or serious thread to keep revisiting. It could be serious ... like perhaps I shouldn't have obsessed or snooped ... boy do I remember those days and calling myself on it somehow gave it less power. Or perhaps ..... I should NOT EVER put the word "puppy&...
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Alone
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I'm not sure where I should even post here, or if I'm am on thr right track - I just feel totally lost right now. I broke away from the unhealthy relationship I was in and was shocked at how quickly I began to . . . shift . . . all my insecurities and needs to another person- setting myself up for the same thing to...
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One Positive Thought for the Day
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I thought I would see if I could get a nice long thread going of just a nice though from those who visit a day. If you don't visit everyday, obviously that is ok, just post when you can. It can be anything. My thought for today is "Alan Alda has a beautiful, infectious smile." Simple, goofy, p...
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Another free 15-day meditation series online -
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Just an FYI for all here -- http://www.mentorschannel.com/Bestsellers/LandingPage.aspx?BookId=177&af=885 (copy to follow)We invite you to join us on June 10th for the 15-Step Healing Rhythms program, a daily journey where you train with the top leaders from the world of Wellness: Dr. De...
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Step Three
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Here is my original post from way back when. You can find the original thread here: http://coda.activeboard.com/t42521217/step-study-step-3/ Want to start discussing Step 3? Step Study - Step 3 (Using the Codependents' Guide to the 12 Steps by Melody Beattie) Made a decision to turn out will a...
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crack software download CD-Adapco STAR-CCM+ v8.02.011 Encom.Discover.V2012.0.2 DNVS Maros 8.1 DNV SESAM 2011 Surpac Vulc
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crack software download CD-Adapco STAR-CCM+ v8.02.011 Encom.Discover.V2012.0.2 DNVS Maros 8.1 DNV SESAM 2011 Surpac Vulcan minidown@mail.ru Anything you need,You can also check here: ctrl + f http://anwerd8.livejournal.com/ http://2011downloadsoftware.over-blog.com/ BOSS.Riv...
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crack software download JOA Jewel Suite v2012.3 Midas Civil 2011 v2.1 Wellflo 2011 Pansystem 2011 ESI QuikCAST 2010 ProC
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crack software download JOA Jewel Suite v2012.3 Midas Civil 2011 v2.1 Wellflo 2011 Pansystem 2011 ESI QuikCAST 2010 ProCAST 2011 minidown@mail.ru Anything you need,You can also check here: ctrl + f http://anwerd8.livejournal.com/ http://cracksoftware2.blogspot.com/ Esperient Crea...
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I didn't like it : (
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Last week, at our first CODA meeting, we began by sharing what we were feeling. It was awkward for everyone it seemed. All I wanted to share was that this was making me feel awkward. I held up my sheet of paper that gave the list of qualities we normally have, and the first thing on the list was "doe...
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My long weekend
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I took Friday and Monday off and headed North. I started in farmland, vast fields with beautiful birds, and eventually made it to the Cascade-Sierra Mountains. Spring was in full swing, the mountain sides covered in lupine and the azaleas and rodies in full bloom. The weather could not have been m...
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Marie Forleo - Feeling Lost
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This is only a test?
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Hello everyone! So...I got asked out twice today. I haven't been asked out in I dont remember how long. A 19 yr old in NA who admits he is not working his program and is drinking all the time. (We work together.) Im nearly twice his age. And, by an ex boyfriend in the beginnings of a divorce. (He offered to fl...
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How to change your perception about negative experiences.
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http://www.mind-your-reality.com/change_your_perception.htmlHi All,this is an excercise I have been using everytime I start beating myself up about the past and how, why I did what I did. The reality is that if we can look at the same events from a different perspective we can feel completely di...
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IC work
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Last night, I did an inner child exercise that Ive heard about recently. I have been depressed, so with my dominate hand, I wrote and asked my IC what was upsetting her.I answered with my other hand. It was interesting. Basically, she was upset that I was always reminding her of hiw awful my ex was when sh...
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Very Confused
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Six weeks or so into this program I am already reaping so many benefits. I can tell that I am growing and changing, but it is not easy. I am uncovering so many layers of pain that my codependency was hiding. I am in a relationship that is very unhealthy and I do not know what to do about it. We have been togeth...
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I THINK - I AM - I WILL
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I am making these three powerful statements my maxim: I THINK - I AM - I WILLThe ability to think consciously is what separates human beings from the plant and animal kingdoms and what distinguishes them amongst themselves. In turn, your ability to think allows you to proclaim the most profound and...
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What are you dreams / goals?
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Mine is multi-faceted. I just bought my home 2 years ago and have been making upgrades ever since. It is increasing in value and I really think I will make a good profit on it. Then I want to put that money away for a future property when prices go back down and start traveling. I mean like public transpo...
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OMG, Absolutely Hillarious
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My favorite web site in the world is www.wimp.com. This one I had to watch several times and just laughed my butt of each time. It was only for an HOUR and they don't say anything about that just being the beginning of being a parent. http://www.wimp.com/laborsimulation/  The wives crack me up....
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Join us for a free online workshop with Martha Beck!
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(Email to me from the Chopra Center. Unfortunately I am hosting my own webinar at that time  ) Martha Beck: Finding Your Way to Joy and Peace Wednesday, May 15th12:15- 1 PM PTJoin us for an interactive webinar on Wednesday, May 15th with Martha Beck, featured speaker at the upcoming Seduction o...
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Is this normal?
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Im about 3 weeks away from my one year recovery anniversary. This time last year I was rock bottom...leaving a long term relationship with an active alcoholic and (ane also losing most of my unhealthy friendships in the process) yadadada. I thought as I neared my one year, I may feel some discomfort, b...
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Building self esteem.
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Your self worth is a function of how you value yourself. To build your self worth you must first discover your values and then make up your own definition of success. Your values are nothing more than what you value in life. You probably already know that society places excessive value on the outward a...
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Passage from Celebrate Recovery Book
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A codependent's major defect of character may be fear of abandonment. People who fall into this category have probably wasted a lot of time in unhealthy relationships in an unsuccessful attempt to fill a void in their life. When they start working the eight principles, and particularly when they...
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I Plan to be around more
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Hello my name is Dean and I'm a codependent. I have not been around this board much lately (usually the excuses and apology would be inserted here ) but plan to be in here more often. I missed a couple of folks messages due to my absence. I hope that I can contribute and learn something new. Dean
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I can't help it.
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Spending lots of time in the recovery rooms, means I'm going to need to be a tad codependent to survive right? I mean - the point of our 12th step work is to help others : ) For this alcoholic with lots of other things that I can gravitate toward excess and obsession about - I must do the 12 steps, then conti...
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New
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I don't know where to begin. I am new to this board and have been trying to find my happiness, I'm severely depressed, have severe anxiety and codependent. I want to attend a CoDA meeting, but, well, I don't want to go alone and it's unfamiliar tome and the thought of going to a meeting scares me. What hap...
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Self Limiting Beliefs
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Self limiting beliefs are those negative beliefs about yourself that stand in the way of your growth and weaken your self esteem. For those of you that can use additional information and step by step support go to this web page: http://www.mind-your-reality.com/limiting_beliefs.html#Part_...
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All out of fight
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I don't know if this is the place to post these thoughts or not. I just know that I don't feel like doing anything anymore. I don't know what happened. I sense that my IC is kicking about something but I can't figure out what it is. I do know that is started when my mom died because after my husband suicided in...
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