So when you first figure out your codependent ways. Your whole life seems like a waste. All the years spent that you felt was for someone or something special, comes crashing down. Or at least that what it felt like to me.
The good news is that you can grow stronger and learn to live a healthy and have a happy relationship that serves all involved.
I have been able to look back on my life and chuckle as to how screwed up my life was then. And still wonder why and how did I get myself into such a messed up relationship.
Being able to laugh at these mistakes and learn how to avoid making them in the future is the key to happiness.