Step 3 is difficult for most codependent folks to wrap them mind around. I struggled even though I would have answered yes if asked if I believed in God, at the time of learning about my codependency issue.  The problem was God only came into play when I was speeding and I saw a speed trap I just went by. Then I would start to pray, Please God, don’t have the cop give me a ticket. Please make him think it was someone else. Or please God let me win the lotto jackpot this week.

But as I found myself in my ending relationship and all the pain associated with that. I did not pray to God. I did what I always did. Try to FIX the problem. Unfortunately I was un-able to SEE I was part of the Problem. Ouch! That point still stings.

Only after I started into the 12 step program did that idea come to mind, about asking God for help with ALL my life.  

Over the years I would have identified as a typical Christian church believer. But now I lean more toward a spiritual belief. It makes so much more sense to me.

Each person has to identify what works best for them. But once you have experience letting go of the outcome. Just allow for whatever happens to happen without any involvement. You will start slowly to understand how less complicated life really is.

What use to cause me worry before. I give very little thought to now. Give it a try for 30 days and you will see positive results. Peace