Is it healthy to continue a relationship with a person who is an adult child of alcoholic. Who is in the beginning of trying to help themselves. My concern is if they never knew themselves and the play a role in the relationship to maintain the peace. Was the love ever authentic? And during their growth what happens if you both come to the conclusion. You never had anything in common. Is it not better to separate and be cordial with one another. While they go thru their healing. And if both parties agree reconnect at a later time if the circumstances allow it. To try at the relationship on better safer terms for both parties.
This relationship im speaking about is a couple years in.