I am new to CoDA and I have been attending phone meetings this week. I am currently reading Codependent No More and in therapy and I feel I am on a good path for myself to heal finally and learn to have healthy relationships for the first time in my life. I honestly can't think of one truly healthy relationship I have been in. I also recently realized I have never lived alone my entire life and I am about to move into my own place for the first time. I really want to find a sponsor and work the steps, but I am finding it difficult to open up over the phone and especially trying to find a sponsor. Could anyone offer some advice about how to advocate for myself and get started?