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The Tew, of Tue'sday was a germanic god of war. The Freia of Friday was a goddess or fertility.

At one time of my life, I was averse to invoking the old pagan gods, most days of the week! hmm 

By my higher power journey has transcended that thought. Step 11.

 

Reaching out to a old girlfriend. We were together twice- in 1971, and 72-73.

Having to create-out of nothing, a new set of boundaries, is an exciting challenge for me!

It keeps my young... ...and I do not lose the handhold i have on the hand of my inner kid.

Or other people's inner kids- for that matter.

Fun and frolics?

Happiness, even... smile ...

It was great to post the CODA Promises here- on this forum's message board.

I like it that the movement can make promises. aww 

The steps can become dry and unproductive, after a while.

Where do we go next?

What do we do next? 

Hey!  smile ...



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  aww I use social media a lot. Some might say too much?

But as a kid I was a book nerd- and now I am a computer nerd. aww...

A great source of information and resources.

My friend K. believes that her life is short. Because of great cancer.

This may well be true.

But, just maybe, a shift in consciousness, new interests, might just promote a change!

For me body chemistry is important- essential.

My body pain and sense of cold. Unbearable cold.

It is about survival. And I seem to know a lot about survival.



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smile In theory, anyway. In practise, this is different- depending on the situation.

I am 70 years old. I have been right through the baby boomer years. 

I saw the rise of woman's lib, feminism... and subsequent initiatives...

...the leader of my country is a mum. She spoke at the UN four years ago.

She coined the short phrase:- WE TOO. A bit of a sylph on another theme. aww 

But something I can go with, personally. aww

With the advent of the concept of codependency- it really actually emerged as a woman's issue.

I was the only male, of a hometown Alanon meeting, for the first 25 years. I had seem my mum

battle with an alcoholic relationship- as the co-dependent.

As I share, these days, I also reflect along the way.

There is a little bit of J.A.D.E. in this share.

Me trying to justify myself.

But this is a starting point for me. We all have the right to be wrong.

I was always afraid, scared, terrified of things because of was afraid of getting things wrong.

Being around a perfectionist, who had trouble getting anything right. hmm ...



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  ...random, a segue...

 



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