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STICKY:
POSTING GUIDELINES
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Posting Guidelines This forum is intended to provide an atmosphere of open communication, where each member can share his or her own insights and opinions. To help achieve this goal, we ask that you:Do not post threatening, abusing, defamatory, libelous or illegal material.Do not post harassing...
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STICKY:
A Simple Thank You
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Hello Everyone, As the founder and webmaster of Miracles In Progress I want to extent a personal "Thank You" to each of you for valuing and utilizing the CoDA portion of our site. As we grow in our recoveries from alcoholism, addiction, or being a family member of a loved one who suffers from this di...
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STICKY:
MIP Business Board
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The MIP Business board has been set up at https://mipbusiness.activeboard.com MIP Business is a place where members of all the fellowships in Miracles in Progress can be informed and have a say in changes that affect the MIP website pages. This is a place to communicate, discuss, and, when neces...
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Codependent No More Book Study - Links to All Chapters
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http://coda.activeboard.com/t41972579/book-study-codepende...
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Sparklit Board & GoDaddy Funding Request
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The Sparklit Board Funding has been expended. We are asking in the spirit of Tradition 7 for funding to continue the forums. Sparklit ActiveBoard Donations GoDaddy will be ready for renewal in May as well. We are looking for a solution for accepting donations. Last year we used my business PayPal a...
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Coda audio recordings.
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The official CODA UK website has made available, a whole set of audio recordings that were made over two weekends in the UK by CODA's co-founders in October 2019. To access them go to website main page and click on the appropriate link, www.codauk.org. alternatively click on www.codauk/ken-and-ma...
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Need help getting started during COVID
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I am new to CoDA and I have been attending phone meetings this week. I am currently reading Codependent No More and in therapy and I feel I am on a good path for myself to heal finally and learn to have healthy relationships for the first time in my life. I honestly can't think of one truly healthy relations...
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Glad to see that this board is active
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Hello Brothers and Sisters, been away for a little while, ski season is over. very nice to come in and see the board is active, thanks for keeping the lights on. 
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7th Tradition for Forum Hosting
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It's time for voluntary contributions to support our MIP forums. We are currently paid up through May 2020, and need $215.76 to extend that through the next 12 months. The donation link is below. Please note that the form says Al-Anon Family Groups, but donations will support all the forums on MIP...
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Recovering codependent
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I somehow ended up on this site looking for recovery stuff, stuff to work on, as I lost virtually everything as my ex-partner was able to deny me access to my house from one day to the other. Fortunately I had already decided to rent a house to at least have a place away from him, from my house, from my home, b...
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New
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are there any online meetings I can join? -- Edited by Mysticlaw on Sunday 5th of May 2019 03:11:53 AM
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Taking the Right Steps
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Well.... I guess I'm going to try to tackle it all at once so, I registered for this board. I am just start (again) my ACoA program and my experience says this goes hand in hand with that program. Wish me luck. SueAnn
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I'm new, please help!
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Hi. I'm new to CoDA. I have struggled for many years ... my whole life with many issues. I am 42 and have made a lot of strides but feel I'm right back where I've always been. But, in a fresh, new hell. It is my relationship with my wife. Basically, I have been married for 19 years - together for 22. I have tak...
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Help Needed for MIP Web Hosting Renewal
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Please see the post on the MIP Business Board
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Step Study Is anyone interested?
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I would like to get a step study going on here. I am involved in one face to face group local to me. I can not find a time to add a group to my in person schedule. I am hoping to kick start something here.
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ON LINE CODA meetings
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Hi, I am wondering if there are coda meetings on line one can attend. I have CODA meetings in my town which I intend to attend. Starting tonight. I also want to have access when I get the codependent crazies. I have been in a 3 yr relationship with an alcoholic and have finally gotten him to move out for a br...
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New to CODA and somewhat lost
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The title pretty much sums it up. Been in one disastrous event after the other my entire life not realizing I am a prime CODA candidate. This is a relatively new understanding of myself. I've read the traits, characteristics and behavior models posted on a number of information sites. I hit about 85-9...
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Introduction
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Hello, I've been coming to the realization lately that I have a lot of issues and may be (am likely) codependent. I think the point where it really hit me that I had a problem was listening to my dad and my brother fighting (my brother is a drug and alcohol abuser, as well as having a mood and personality di...
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CODA 12 Steps.... and Step One.
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The Twelve Steps of Co-Dependents Anonymous 1. We admitted we were powerless over others - that our lives had become unmanageable. 2. Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. 3. Made a decision to turn our will and lives over to the care of God as we understood God...
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Request for group conscience on site technical improvement - navigation
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Please visit the MIP CODA business forum to participate in a group conscience about a technical improvements to the MIP CODA site. -- Your WebHelper Team
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4th Step
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Hi, my name is Stefani. I'm new here. I am working the steps mostly solo, but I was wondering if anyone would be willing to hear my fourth step? I haven't started yet, because I was thinking I should probably find a person to sponsor me first. Anyways thank you for this forum. I'm grateful to be here.
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Newbie with basic questions and help with my situation please
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Just found this area after doing a search wondering IF I need an Al Anon or Codependents Anonymous meetings. My partner is 16 years sober but NOT a "recovering alcoholic" meaning that he does NOT attend AA meetings feeling he doesn't "need them"... I am actively working on my Overeaters Anonymous r...
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Suggestions anyone?
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Is it healthy to continue a relationship with a person who is an adult child of alcoholic. Who is in the beginning of trying to help themselves. My concern is if they never knew themselves and the play a role in the relationship to maintain the peace. Was the love ever authentic? And during their growth w...
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Back here again
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A long time ago I went to CODA meetings. Eventually I moved out of the relationship that put me there. For a long time I wanted nothing more than to be alone. Away from relationships - good or bad. Just to find myself, discover who I was and I what I liked, and try to be the person that I needed to be. Can't say l...
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love and release.
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Someone, somewhere in one of these healing rooms that I attended, I heard thesE Words: "i love you, I bless you, I release you to your own indwelling presence of God." I heard the message and immediately thought of my two estranged children. One of whom I have not had contact for 25 years. Both of th suffe...
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Hi I'm new to this group...i finally found the courage to post
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Hi everyone, I'm new to this group- not new to CODA. I am feeling so badly and hurt and every emotion seems to be magnified. I suffer from anxiety and depression and everything has spiked for the worse this past week. I am living in a toxic environment and am now having panic attacks from it- I don't fe...
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Step One.
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!. Admitted that I was powerless over others, and that my life had become unmanageable. -easy peasy for me- since I have always done the steps this way- slotting in the issue that most bugged me. Not sure of the customary "prayer" for Coda members... mostly it can depend on the group itself. Pleas...
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Group conscience... tradition one...
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Ah kin slot into a CODA meeting fairly easily... though I have never been to a f2f meeting of CODA. There are no groups here on my island. [It is BIG island]. I really came into here as a member of the MIP family- to offer support. My way of doing this one is to offer ESH. Something we could do here is to regi...
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Find an online CODA sponsor?
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Not having any luck locally
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Hi
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Hi Everyone, I was a member here a few years ago now. Back then this board didn't really resonate with myself. These days things are a bit different now. I seem to be looking more into my acoa and coda side of my life. Lately I've been drawn to a lady called Lisa Romano. She has a book out called Co-Depe...
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