It hurts when you hear people call you controlling but that's what I am.I try real hard to allow my family to be responsible for their actions, I am not alway successful.
I am a surivor of Child abuse, Sexual Child abuse, Domestic Abuse and my husband is in rehab for coaine abuse (addiction)
I finally took controll"lol" and told him this:
I love you and I will do what I can to help you with your journy towards recover. However you need to decided which relationship is important to you, your relationship with drugs or your relationship with your family. Now that he is taking care of his self I am going to learn how to take care of me. I thank God for this Group& you too John
Welcome to MIP, Books. I'm glad you feel you belong here. It is a good feeling, isn't it. I love being here amongst my fellowship friends. Never alone again. May the God of your own understanding bless your recovery. Keep coming back. The promises to the steps come true. Recovery love, lilmzx